Can you give a good life with what you earn as a prostitute? That is holiday, travels, outputs expensive places, or buy many things you like.
I think it's time to stop feeding this trend that divides whores in vain women who just want to buy expensive handbags and women who have sacrificed by five children, two dogs and a cat. Between these two stereotypes are people who simply we are doing and actually our life is a little bit of everything. Prostitutes are people with a thousand different interests and “Good Life” we can give sometimes depends on things that are not even under our control. Prostitution does not work in an idyllic world and classism, machismo, xenophobia and transphobia affects us all when working. In addition to the thousand personal issues that each load in your backpack. Sex work is for many women with mental health problems the only way to raise revenue without the pressure of a routine or accountability to third parties.
You look like a smart girl who could work anything he put his mind. Why are you doing this?
Sex workers are the most remarkable women I've ever met. If you dejarais of cosificarnos you could see that the belief that only an idiot would choose to be fucking woman, is least offensive. If not sexist, Retrograde and putofóbica. Being a bitch does not mean becoming a dead body, our work is more complex than simply open your legs and look at the ceiling. Independent colleagues have run a small business where we need marketing skills, branding and customer, In addition to everything that comes with being your own boss in a highly competitive market and stigmatized. And both autonomous as those working in agencies or brothels, We require social and emotional intelligence so that our appointments are not a disaster. Why these skills are not valued? If you think there is only one kind of intelligence, here Ter tells you things What you need to know. Not underestimate the whores, We charge you for something that has taught us to give free because employment options offered to us we were short, and we do it because we lack intelligence any.
The only question that arises is, given the sexual nature of your work, How do you to have sex with people who put you anything? Both physically and mentally.
I've always said that what to me puts me in my work is the physical context and the other person, or the story of his life does not interest me because the important thing is the attitude and respect for the appointment. But let's get in the event that I can not choose my client and I'm in no mood to work but I have to do the same because I come tofu and soy milk.
Sex is not the same for everyone. It tends to separate pleasurable sexual experiences or traumatic, when sometimes they are so irrelevant situations like having to smile for hours at a poorly educated person because you're in the public eye representing a company and you can not treat him with all the hatred you want. For some it is more stressful psychologically to be eight hours a day cleaning to fuck someone we do not like for one hour and take what others earn in several days Gigs. Because that's the kind of options we have prostitutes, feminised jobs that nobody cares if we enjoyed folding clothes all day while we put the song blaring summer loop. We must stop imposing our view of sex in others. You may not always whores enjoy sexually with all our customers, but maybe that is not a problem for us and at the end of the day, is our decision.
On your website puts you do blowjobs with condom. Can I pay you more for us to do bareback?
The only reason I would accept change my working conditions at the insistence of a customer, it's because I'm literally in an extreme situation. You really want to be the kind of man who takes advantage of the vulnerability of other women?
Each of us mark the conditions depending on what we need, what we want or what we can do. We are talking about a sector where there lacks variety in prices and experiences, insist that someone specifically lower your rate or make a sexual practice that has already told you not want to do, It makes clear interest of abuse of power. These are the men who make anyone consider abolitionism, because they are not looking to enjoy someone's company, They seek to impose and mistreat. As consumers have a responsibility not to perpetuate sexist behavior and that we work safely. It is unacceptable that manipuléis our working conditions to your interest. Rates are non-negotiable and sexual experience in the quote is agreed between all stakeholders. And if a woman tells you not, is that not even when that woman is a bitch.
When party sales and leagues with some guy, Do you take it home and think it's better to pay? (I hope I do not offend you, really, not how to ask the question).
To answer this we should imagine a different Natalia living in a parallel world in which out partying and flirting with boys. How to do this is a little ridiculous, I will adapt my personality question and answer that when I meet people outside of my work with my rates go ahead.
Relationships at work are very different from those we have in private life. Yes, Also whores fuck off gigs and each is a world apart. I know partners in monogamous relationships, straight lesbian, which do not relate to men outside the curro. They are those who actively seek experiences in private life or have interest in finding partners with any agreements. And then there are those that feel an immense laziness to link, we are given directly fatal and we do not. When you're a sex worker, and an anti-social person, You're used to that relationships are agreed and pay you for your time, flirting with someone new is an effort no guarantee of success. But your question sounds more “If I find you and we like each party, Are you going to charge?”. Well, if what you want is what I offer on my website, of course.